I don't have any children of my own, although over the past twelve months or so I've been finding myself more and more inclined to liking the idea. I suppose it's my male biological clock ticking over, or perhaps it's just because it took me this long to find the person who I'd actually consider starting a family with. I'm really fond of the idea of being a father, even though my girlfriend is completely against naming our children after Star Wars characters *smiles*. But to be honest, up until just recently, I've had very little to do with children.... especially very young children.
My ex girlfriend had neices and nephews between the ages of six and nine, and I always managed to get on brilliantly with them, but babies are a weak spot of sorts for me.
I'm a godfather to a little girl who will be turning three this month, and I became an uncle 20 months ago... but until recently I've had very little to do with either of them one-on-one.
My mother fell ill a while back, and baby-sitting duties of my neice have fallen on my shoulders a couple of afternoons each week. I'm gradually learning of all the joys which go hand in hand with babies - dirty nappies, food-time-tantrums, and energy levels which seem to exceed my own ten-fold. With these energy levels comes a constant need to keep my neice occupied, whether it be with games, stories, music or television.
The problem I'm facing though, is that my attention level seems to be diminishing far faster than hers, and whilst she is quite happy for me to read "The Three Little Pigs" for what seems like the thousandth time, I on the other hand feel like hitting myself on the head with the book and knocking myself out, simply so I won't have to "huff and puff and puff and huff" a single 'nother time. Although if I did that, I'm quite sure she'd find it amusing and then to keep her entertained I'd be whacking myself on the head constantly.
I never thought I'd look forward to 'Playschool' so much in my life... because Playschool provides me with about 20 minutes where I have to do nothing! :)
I know many of the members here at Opinionspaid are parents, or grandparents... or older brothers and sisters, and I'm sure a great deal of you have some great tips at keeping kids occupied.
So that's my question to you - what are some simple things that you do to keep your children happy and entertained?
Thanks in advance!!
Posted on behalf of Matthew Van Zyderveld
Posted
Apr 17 2008, 02:08 PM
by
gillywilly